How can I tell whether I am staying out of love or out of fear?

Ask what you imagine if you left. If the first answers are about money, loneliness, what people will say, or God’s disapproval, fear is doing much of the holding.

From the book 12∞ Twelve to Infinity by D.R. Davenport. The full answer is free to read with an iBelieve account.

Where it sits in the book

Part

3: Awakening Inside a Christian Family

Gate

3.10: Love and Compatibility

In print

Page 106

• ← 3.10.10 · Why do we keep having the same argument?
• 3.10.12 → · How will I know when it is time to decide?
• All of Part 3

Topics

• Fear
• Staying or leaving

Explore the same vibration

• How do I know whether this is a crisis that will pass or the real end? · 3.11.1
• How do I find the most loving thing to do? · 4.11.5
• What is the safest first principle to hold while everything else is changing? · 1.1.12
• When does the wish for safety begin to cost too much? · 4.5.2
• How does fear distort financial decisions? · 10.3.2
• How do I show my child that “I don’t know” is a good answer? · 5.2.11